Something to share... from a Poll on "a board"...on self-esteem... my response...

"I am surprised by the percentages that some say a provider improves their self esteem. I have a pretty strong sense of self and this is simply an outlet for other levels of gratification. Self esteem aint one. Your thoughts?" - anonymous

On the other side of the coin... that's an interesting thought for many of us providers...or maybe a question from the Gents...

Some women do this for "approval" from men... Sure, I want to make sure we're mutually happy in our time together! BUT, I certainly do this for my pleasure too; because as a busy single Mom (yes... your MILF next door!) and having "another profession" it just makes WAY more sense to date men of the hobby than otherwise... If you haven't met me then you'd not know... that out, I dress VERY conservatively, rarely showing much cleavage... I just don't care to "attract extra attention" ...

I asked a Gent's opinion about whether I should highlight/lighten my hair or go natural because I was admiring some of the BLONDIES around... and he said, "Stop comparing yourself to others." I had to laugh... It's not comparing, it's simply getting an opinion and... most women DO change their hair often... I have to say, I think I've gotten my hair highlighted and/or permed only 3 times in my life...and thinking about something different, NOT because of anyone else, tho, yes, it's pretty on them and what's wrong with asking the opinion of someone you like/value their opinion? That should be meant as a compliment...

You know what I've found out ladies??? That what we do with our hair / bodies, the men honestly don't care, they just want US to be happy with it! THEY could LOVE us or leave us (notice LOVE is highlighted!) with or without the highlights or nails or thigh highs... with a few exceptions! Ok...the high thighs maybe more of a pre-req! :)

Bottom line... Do what YOU love and LOVE what you do!

As far as the men... I'm sure there comes a point when some of you are "still making sure it works" and who better to experiment than a non-judging, ever grateful lover!


XOXO...
Dr. Sarah Love :)

See you in LA!